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Perimenopause, Menopause and Midlife:
Step Into Your Strongest Chapter Yet

Feeling overwhelmed, foggy or not sure who you are now? Together we'll make sense of the chaos, discover who you are today, and decide what to keep and what to let go of. Online coaching and hypnotherapy audios for women anywhere in the world.

Karen, founder of Transforming Midlife and midlife mindset coach

Hi, I’m Karen, a Midlife Mindset coach, NLP Practitioner and Clinical Hypnotherapist.

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You're not imagining it. The overwhelm, the anxiety, the exhaustion, the feeling that you've lost yourself somewhere along the way. It's real, and you're not alone.

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I know, because I've been there myself.

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I help women in perimenopause, menopause and midlife make sense of the chaos, decide what to keep and what to let go of, and step into their strongest chapter yet.

If this feels familiar, you're in the right place

Woman fanning herself during a hot flush

You don’t feel like yourself anymore.

The woman in the mirror doesn't quite feel familiar.

"When did I stop feeling like me?"

Woman sitting at a table, looking tired

You're doing "all the right things", but nothing changes.

You've read the books, listened to the podcasts and tried new habits, yet you end up back where you started.

Woman standing outdoors, gazing thoughtfully into the distance.

Your confidence has quietly disappeared.

You second-guess yourself and overthink decisions. You're not as sure of yourself as you once were.​

Woman meditating beside the water

You're exhausted from holding everything together.

Everyone else comes first, and you keep going because you have to.

"When did I last check in with me?"

This is a chapter, not the whole story.  The next one is yours to write.

There's a reason you feel this way.

Maybe you're exhausted because you're not sleeping. You wake in the night and your mind switches on, and by morning you're running on empty. Maybe it's the overwhelm, the anxiety, the foggy head or the short fuse. Or maybe nothing looks wrong from the outside, but inside you don't feel like yourself anymore.

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We're often told it's all hormones. They're part of it, but only part of the story. Another part is a shift in who you are. Somewhere along the way, some of the ways you've done things, the beliefs you've carried and the patterns that once kept you going stop fitting the woman you're becoming.

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I know, because I've been there. I didn't recognise the body I was in, and I didn't understand my feelings half the time. I had medical support for my hormones, but I knew something wasn't right. The bigger question was who am I now?

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Looking back, what I needed most was someone who really listened, who understood, and who gave me the space to discover this next chapter and the woman I was becoming. That's what I offer now.

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That isn't a crisis. It's a turning point, and it can be the most powerful chapter you ever step into.

You don't have to work this out on your own.

Struggling mostly with sleep? Explore the Midlife Sleep Reset.

A Client Story

One woman's story. Perhaps a little of yours.

Suzanne came to me feeling stuck and searching for answers. Her story is about gradually understanding what was happening beneath the surface and finding her way back to herself.

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"She heard me in a way that no one else ever has in my entire life."

Suzanne, Michigan, US

Kind Words from Clients

From some of the women I've had the pleasure of working with.

I'd bought one of Karen's audios before and her voice is just so calming, it really helped. But I wanted to go deeper because my menopause journey felt pretty messy.

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The Midlife session was amazing for unravelling what I was feeling and figuring out some things to help me move forward. The best part was the personal audio, really powerful and relaxing too.

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Also been sleeping better, which is such a nice bonus. Highly recommend Karen to literally any woman, any age!

Claire, Portsmouth, UK

Kia ora. I've been so grateful for the opportunity to work with Karen.
 
Her deep listening, insightful questions and unflappable support have supported meaningful shifts in my self-talk and sense of calm.
 
Weirdly, I am feeling both more chill AND more productive.
 
Thank you, Karen, for being so generous with your skills and self.

Miriam, North Canterbury, NZ

Karen’s one to one support and her hypnotherapy audios have been with me now for many months. It is as if I called out from the bottom of the well and she heard me. She told me to hang on and that she would be back to help me. I cried out my gratitude. I waited. She came down to me. She appeared at the bottom of the well like a vision.

 

She talked with me and really listened. She heard me in a way that no one else ever has in my entire life. Somehow in those moments she gave me enough to sustain me. She left and was gone. This began a new phase of her appearance and sustenance. She saved me.

Suzanne, Michigan, US (excerpt taken from her story The Climb - read the full story above)

Ways to Work Together

There’s no one right place to start. Choose what feels right for where you are now.

The Midlife Session

NZ$295 / *US$165

A 90-minute personalised online session, a bespoke hypnotherapy audio to carry your work forward, and a check-in two weeks later.

Clarity now, and support to keep going.

Go a little deeper

NZ$695 / *US$390

Three-Session Support over about six to eight weeks: one 90-minute session, two 60-minute follow-ups, a bespoke hypnotherapy audio, a personalised meditation and extra tools shaped around you.

Pay in full or in two payments of NZ$347.50.

1:1 Coaching Journeys

From NZ$1,495 / *US$840

Ongoing support over three or six months, combining coaching, NLP and bespoke hypnotherapy audios, shaped around you.

Lasting change, with support all the way.

Prefer to start on your own?

Hypnotherapy Audio Library

Ready-made hypnotherapy audios and guided meditations you can buy here or on Etsy, and listen to in your own time.

Midlife Sleep Reset

A self-paced digital programme for women who can’t fall asleep, wake in the night or can’t switch off at bedtime

Not sure which is right for you? Book a free 20-minute Let’s Chat and we’ll work it out together.

*  Approx USD value. Subject to currency exchange 

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