Menopause at Work: Are We Missing the Psychological Impact?
Updated: Sep 14
There is far more conversation about menopause in the workplace than there was even a few years ago.
And that is a very good thing.
More organisations are recognising that women may need greater understanding and support while navigating perimenopause and menopause. Conversations that were once happening quietly, if they were happening at all, are finally becoming part of workplace wellbeing.
But I wonder if there is another part of the conversation, we need to make room for.
Because midlife isn't only a hormonal transition. It can also be a significant period of psychological and personal change.
There can be a lot happening at once
Midlife rarely arrives as one neat, isolated experience.
Alongside the physical and cognitive effects of perimenopause and menopause, a woman may be navigating ageing parents, children becoming more independent, changing relationships, shifts in her body, questions about identity, or a career that no longer feels quite as fulfilling as it once did. Sometimes several of these are happening at the same time.
And through all of it, she may still be turning up to work, managing people, making decisions, meeting deadlines, solving problems and carrying responsibility. From the outside, she may appear to be managing perfectly well.
Internally, she may be wondering:
Why don't I feel like myself anymore?
Why am I questioning things I used to be certain about?
Why does what used to work for me suddenly not seem to work anymore?
What do I actually want from this next part of my life?
These aren't necessarily signs that something has gone wrong.
They can be signs that something has changed.
Our lives change but our internal patterns don't automatically change with them
This is one of the areas I find particularly interesting in my work with women in midlife.
When our circumstances change, the beliefs, habits, expectations and subconscious patterns we've developed over many years don't simply update themselves.
A woman may have spent decades being the dependable one. The person who:
says yes.
takes on the extra responsibility.
keeps everybody else happy.
pushes through.
holds herself to incredibly high standards.
whose patterns may once have served her very well.
But as her life changes, she may begin to question whether they still do. And that can show up at work in ways that aren't always recognised as part of the wider midlife transition.
Confidence may look different in midlife
A woman who has spent years feeling capable in her role may suddenly begin doubting herself. Another may find she has more confidence than before and much less willingness to tolerate situations that no longer feel right.
She may:
want stronger boundaries.
question whether she wants the promotion she once thought she should want.
become more selective about where she puts her time and energy.
want greater purpose from her work.
Or she may simply realise that she doesn't want to keep doing everything in exactly the same way.
That isn't necessarily a loss of ambition or capability. Sometimes it's clarity.
What does this mean for workplaces?
Supporting women through midlife doesn't mean organisations need to have all the answers. Nor does every woman need the same kind of support.
But widening the conversation can make an enormous difference.
Menopause education and practical workplace adjustments are important. Alongside them, there is value in recognising the wider psychological transition that can be taking place. That might mean creating space for conversations around confidence, boundaries, changing priorities, identity, self-belief and the patterns that influence how women respond to change. It also means avoiding the assumption that every challenge a midlife woman experiences at work is simply a symptom to be managed.
She may not need to get back to who she was before.
She may be working out who she is becoming next.
Midlife can be an asset at work
There is another side of this conversation that I believe deserves far more attention.
Midlife women bring enormous value to workplaces.
Experience. Perspective. Knowledge. Leadership. Emotional intelligence. Problem-solving ability. Resilience. And often, a much clearer understanding of what matters and what doesn't.
When women are supported through this transition rather than expected simply to push through it, organisations have an opportunity not only to retain experienced people, but to help them continue to grow.
Because midlife doesn't have to represent a winding down. For many women, it can be a period of recalibration, renewed confidence and considerable growth.
Perhaps the workplace conversation now needs to evolve too.
Not only: "How do we support women through menopause?"
But also:
"How do we support women to thrive through midlife and into everything that comes next?"
Could your workplace better support women through menopause and midlife?
I offer practical, evidence-informed workplace sessions that explore the wider experience of menopause, including its impact on confidence, stress, identity and working life, not only the physical symptoms.
Karen is a Mindset Coach, Clinical Hypnotherapist and NLP Practitioner, and creator of The Transforming Midlife Method™. She works with women through perimenopause, menopause and midlife, supporting the beliefs, habits and subconscious patterns that can influence how we navigate change.
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